The strong urge for love is a great desire for every human being. Love is an essential priceless commodity for a long lasting relationship. The degree of marital breakups, broken heart relationships have all led credence to the virtue of wanted love in a relationship. The pain of failed relationship is a signal that something is wrong with the acclaimed love that many seem to profess to their partners.
The social or should I say immoral vices in the lives of so many people is just simply an expression of a soul deprived of true love. Their lies in each of us a love vacuum that must be filled with love from an external soul. This seems to be missing in the lives of many. Is love a fairy tale?
Love is real but the price for it is not cheap for those who are not prepared to do what it will take to express and sustain it. Take note of the two key words there. Expressing and Sustaining. Every man has the ability to express whatever it is that is uppermost in the heart. The real problem with love is the ability to sustain such is it good or bad.
Many don’t have the understanding that it takes a determined mind to sustain love in a relationship. Love has little to do with sex or romance which many have seriously engaged themselves in but still fill empty. The so many failed relationships could have been saved if the parties involved decide to put great effort into it. Relationship breakup is not as a result of there is no more love it is simply because there is no more sustenance.
People like to play hide and seek when it comes to love issue. Been plain in a relationship is a sure way to maintain it. Offence will certainly come in any relationship, but to the degree to which it will cause an injury is greatly determined by the party involved. If people will just be sincere enough about how they feel in a relationship especially in times of inner crises or when one partner is not living up to expectation, it will solve many internal hurt that many bottle within.
Love is real and it depends on how best it is practiced. Though the many frustrating relationships may suggest otherwise. The truth remains if people will sincerely put he necessary efforts in their relationship instead of fixing blames, many would be salvaged. The infidelity of today is a result of people not understanding the value of true relationship base of truthfulness and diligence. If you truly love someone you will do all in your power not to offend or soil the relationship.
The love issue is a simple thing that has undergone distortion due to ignorance and pride. Why should a relationship that started so well end in total shams? It is basically the inability of the party involve to see their mistakes and take to correction or a change of attitude. Pride is the bedrock for unfaithfulness and all failed relationship. If people were like children in this love issue it would last long enough than anyone can imagine.
The bottom line of all I have been saying since is that love is real and it is not a fairy tale
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