The Game Of Deception In Love Relationship

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What is deception? This the act of deliberately making somebody believe that something is true.Many relationships that ended in shams and shambles solidify this truth.Either both parties or one were/was not sincere.So many people had deceived themselves with the illusion of falling in love which in so many cases is just building castles in the air.

One can play games in a relationship, you can either win or loose.But the truth is that love relationship involves the three entities that make up a human being namely;

1.The Body

2.The Soul(Heart)

3.The Spirit

       
Many play the games at the body and soul level,but fail to recognize the gravity of the spirit aspect.W ether you win or loose in the game of deception,you will still pay dearly.Like i said in my other post, life is a record keeper and will fully reward you as at when due-good or bad. 
         
To the ladies,how can you discern the game of deception in a guy who claims to love,adore and cherish you.I will state some below for you to beware and turn off a guy who wants to break your heart before he does.
           

SIGNS OF DECEPTION IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP

1.Does not allow you to handle his handset let alone check the message box.

2.Calls you less than you call him.

3.Shows less affection than you do.

4.Loves you less than you love him.(NEVER LOVE A MAN MORE THAN HE LOVES YOU.HE SHOULD LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU DO)

5.He is always re-affirming his love for you and tells you no other lady in his life.(MANY LADIES LIKE THIS BUT IT IS JUST TO KEEP YOU OFF GUIDE IN MOST CASES.A GUY WILL SHOW HIS LOVE NOT IN WORDS BUT IN DEEDS.B-E-W-A-R-E.)

6.Feels reluctant to go out with you even on great occasions.

7.Does not feel comfortable being with you in the midst of friends,especially in a party.

8.Always want to have sex with you.(SOME LADIES FEELS THAT THIS IS A SIGN OF LOVE OR WAYS TO KEEP THE GUY FROM DUMPING THEM.BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU CHEAPEN YOURSELF WHEN YOU GIVE IN TO SUCH.)

9.He receives a call in your presence and move a distance away from you to take the call.(BEWARE WHEN IT BECOMES FREQUENT.HE HAS A SECRET AGENDA)

10.Feels reluctant to visit your house,let alone know your parents.

11.Feels reluctant to introduce you as his fiance before people,family or friends.(THIS IS A SIGN THAT YOU ARE NOT THE CHOSEN ONE BUT ONLY TEMPORARY MATERIAL TO BE USED AND DUMPED.)

12.Gives you certain days and time to visit him.

13.Feels uncomfortable when you call at his house.

14.Showers you with material gifts without restraint.(THIS IS A TOOL THAT RICH GUYS USE TO DECEIVE SOME LADIES OF THEIR LOVE.BUT IT IS A GAME TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT)

15.Complains all the time when you seriously need his financial assistance.(ANY GUY WHO LOVES YOU WILL ALWAYS TRY TO HELP YOU EVEN THOUGH HE LACKS IT.)     16.Make joke out of you or ridicules you before his friends or family.

17.Takes sides with family or friends against you.

18.Travels for days or months without telling you and claiming it was an emergency.

19Remain calm or do nothing when you are been ridiculed,insulted or slighted by friends or family
20.Feels reluctant to honour invitation by your father,mother,uncles,brothers e.t.c.

21.Gets infuriated or angry when you see strange letters or strange texts and bring such to his n notice.

22.Always postpone the day of your wedding for reasons which are flimsy to you.

23.Does not call or text you at least once a week.

24.Goes to parties without you often.

25.Seeing material things that belongs to females in his house.

26.Seeing the pix of females in his house in sensitive places.

27.Seeing more ladies than guys in his album than males.

28.Always tries to dodge the question of engagement or wedding day.

29Not been serious and dedicated to his affiliate religion.

30.Tries to avoid you in the midst of ladies.

      
There are many signs to look out for in guys in their deceptive games.I am presently writing a book titled THE GAME OF DECEPTION IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP.It will soon be out.To get your copy just text your name and email address to hotandromanticmarriage@gmail.com.I will continue in my how to discern when a lady is playing the game of deception in a relationship.

        Till then I remain yours in true love .Please if you need help in love matters feel free to email me.       
E-mail:hotandromanticmarriage@gmail.com

LIFE IS FAIR TO EVERYONE

        
 Life is fair to everyone, especially when it comes to relationship. The success of any relationship is directly related to how you have lived your life in the past. The success of tomorrow’s own depends on how you are living now. You can never eat your cake and have it.     

I am greatly baffled by those who have lived their lives in deceit trying to lay blames on the devil or someone else for their failed relationships.You can't live a rough life and expect a smooth future.Life records all our actions and fully compensates us for what what we are due for.

       
Many can't maintain a stable relationship because they have been unstable themselves in few or many relationships in the past.People cry of broken heart and it makes me to wonder how on earth did that happen.Many may claim innocence but the truth is that among those who claim such if genuine should check their lives properly of what might have transpired in the past that warrants the present.
      
THE BITTER TRUTH IS THAT MANY ARE NOT TRUTHFUL TO THEMSELVES WHEN IT COMES TO WHAT REALLY HAPPENED.I am of the opinion of what you don't plant you cannot reap.If my argument sounds too far fetched,why the many broken homes today?.The rate of divorce is alarming.I fear for this generation of carnality who seek pleasure at the expense of their future happiness.
       
Life is great,but can be a tormentor when you fail to live up to the standard of morals.The many immoralities and vices among many call for a questioning.The future is great for those who understand the place of moral values in the affairs of human activities.
      
The failure of the marriage institution is a reflection of this solemn truth.Many don't know that your sins will always find you out.The hunting shadows from the past is always looking for a way to visit you.YOU can't change the past but you can set in motion what can make the power of the past evil to loose it grips on you.Until you negate the past it will always spoil your present and threaten your future.
       How can one negate the past? It is not all that easy for those who believe they are not responsible to anyone.Unknown to such, your life directly and indirectly affects millions of people.The first thing you must accept is to accept that your actions or inaction's can either lead to peoples failure or success.You had better start living a responsible meaningful life loaded with purpose and focus.
 Life will give you a happy living if you have set into motion harmonious process by your positive and godly activities.You can still enjoy your relationship by coming to terms with your past failures and reconciling with those you need to reconcile with,seeking for divine and human forgiveness.Then and only then can you hope to begin to enjoy the fruit of harmonious relationship. Gather the broken pieces of your life and start afresh with loving zeal and pleasant lifestyle

THE BEAUTY OF LIFE

LIFE IS SO WONDERFUL AND BEAUTIFUL that only a blind "person" will not notice.Life is symbiotic and all created things live in harmony with one another.The only problem in the universe is human activities violating the cosmic laws of the universe.    
   Life itself teaches the tranquility and interdependence of all living things.Life is not selfish and greedy.Humans have failed to understand that one can not disrupt the flow of the universal energy without facing the consequence.It is just like the law of Karma.Whatever you sow you must certainly reap.

Everything needed for human survival as been provided by what some term the Higher Intelligence which is actually God.Many fail to agree to the sound truth that we are all products of our actions.Life gives equal opportunity to everyone to express the vibration of the thought energy in accordance with the cosmic laws of spiritual harmony.

   Marriage which the highest form of the expression of thought energy has been seriously taken for granted.The result-mass marriage and relationship failures.Life is based on the computer terminology called GIGO(Garbage In Garbage Out).
 
The success in your relationship is a reflection of how life is compensating you of all the total summation of your activities on earth to this point in time especially through how you have expressed your thought energy
 Feel free to express your mind to me on relationship matters at love2feelings@gmail.com or text only to 08020406877