The Game Of Deception In Love Relationship

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What is deception? This the act of deliberately making somebody believe that something is true.Many relationships that ended in shams and shambles solidify this truth.Either both parties or one were/was not sincere.So many people had deceived themselves with the illusion of falling in love which in so many cases is just building castles in the air.

One can play games in a relationship, you can either win or loose.But the truth is that love relationship involves the three entities that make up a human being namely;

1.The Body

2.The Soul(Heart)

3.The Spirit

       
Many play the games at the body and soul level,but fail to recognize the gravity of the spirit aspect.W ether you win or loose in the game of deception,you will still pay dearly.Like i said in my other post, life is a record keeper and will fully reward you as at when due-good or bad. 
         
To the ladies,how can you discern the game of deception in a guy who claims to love,adore and cherish you.I will state some below for you to beware and turn off a guy who wants to break your heart before he does.
           

SIGNS OF DECEPTION IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP

1.Does not allow you to handle his handset let alone check the message box.

2.Calls you less than you call him.

3.Shows less affection than you do.

4.Loves you less than you love him.(NEVER LOVE A MAN MORE THAN HE LOVES YOU.HE SHOULD LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU DO)

5.He is always re-affirming his love for you and tells you no other lady in his life.(MANY LADIES LIKE THIS BUT IT IS JUST TO KEEP YOU OFF GUIDE IN MOST CASES.A GUY WILL SHOW HIS LOVE NOT IN WORDS BUT IN DEEDS.B-E-W-A-R-E.)

6.Feels reluctant to go out with you even on great occasions.

7.Does not feel comfortable being with you in the midst of friends,especially in a party.

8.Always want to have sex with you.(SOME LADIES FEELS THAT THIS IS A SIGN OF LOVE OR WAYS TO KEEP THE GUY FROM DUMPING THEM.BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU CHEAPEN YOURSELF WHEN YOU GIVE IN TO SUCH.)

9.He receives a call in your presence and move a distance away from you to take the call.(BEWARE WHEN IT BECOMES FREQUENT.HE HAS A SECRET AGENDA)

10.Feels reluctant to visit your house,let alone know your parents.

11.Feels reluctant to introduce you as his fiance before people,family or friends.(THIS IS A SIGN THAT YOU ARE NOT THE CHOSEN ONE BUT ONLY TEMPORARY MATERIAL TO BE USED AND DUMPED.)

12.Gives you certain days and time to visit him.

13.Feels uncomfortable when you call at his house.

14.Showers you with material gifts without restraint.(THIS IS A TOOL THAT RICH GUYS USE TO DECEIVE SOME LADIES OF THEIR LOVE.BUT IT IS A GAME TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT)

15.Complains all the time when you seriously need his financial assistance.(ANY GUY WHO LOVES YOU WILL ALWAYS TRY TO HELP YOU EVEN THOUGH HE LACKS IT.)     16.Make joke out of you or ridicules you before his friends or family.

17.Takes sides with family or friends against you.

18.Travels for days or months without telling you and claiming it was an emergency.

19Remain calm or do nothing when you are been ridiculed,insulted or slighted by friends or family
20.Feels reluctant to honour invitation by your father,mother,uncles,brothers e.t.c.

21.Gets infuriated or angry when you see strange letters or strange texts and bring such to his n notice.

22.Always postpone the day of your wedding for reasons which are flimsy to you.

23.Does not call or text you at least once a week.

24.Goes to parties without you often.

25.Seeing material things that belongs to females in his house.

26.Seeing the pix of females in his house in sensitive places.

27.Seeing more ladies than guys in his album than males.

28.Always tries to dodge the question of engagement or wedding day.

29Not been serious and dedicated to his affiliate religion.

30.Tries to avoid you in the midst of ladies.

      
There are many signs to look out for in guys in their deceptive games.I am presently writing a book titled THE GAME OF DECEPTION IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP.It will soon be out.To get your copy just text your name and email address to hotandromanticmarriage@gmail.com.I will continue in my how to discern when a lady is playing the game of deception in a relationship.

        Till then I remain yours in true love .Please if you need help in love matters feel free to email me.       
E-mail:hotandromanticmarriage@gmail.com